With partners or marriage, or even with kids, parents, and grandparents,strangely for best results, often we do not prune. Transformation comes from deep inside. Keep it light.

There is one Who goes with you.

      Instructions      Fill out the game according to your family members. Then, for your business associates. Both affect your health. For example, if it is closer to the action on the left--mark closer to the left; if closer, to the right, mark closer to the right .                                 

To use as a game quiz Print out, have them fill out, compare.

With permission of the author, Yingling 1996. I adapted bits of her serious work for this game.
A. My Partner and I.                                                                                   
tell each other important things _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ keep many important secrets from each   
                                                                                  other

listen to each other respectfully _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always butt in or ignore each other

get across well to each other _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ never seem to understand each other

work together when necessary _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ fight when cooperation is needed

try new ways to solve problems _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ do it the way it was always done

there for each other when really needed_  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always in the way or never  there
                                                                                                when needed
treat each other as adults _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ acts like parents and children

B. My Children and I
tell each other important things _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ keep many important secrets from each
                                                                                          other

listen to each other respectfully _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always butt in or ignore each other

get across well to each other _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ never seem to understand each other

work together when necessary _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ fight when cooperation is needed

try new ways to solve problems _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ do it the way it was always done

there for each other when really needed_  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always in the way or never  there           
                                                                                              when needed
treat each other as adults _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ acts like parents and children   

tell each other important things _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ keep many important secrets  from each
                                                                                   other

listen to each other respectfully _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always butt in or ignore each other

get across well to each other _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ never seem to understand each other

work together when necessary _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ fight when cooperation is needed

try new ways to solve problems _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ do it the way it was always done

there for each other when really needed_  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always in the way or never there     
                                                                                               when needed

treat each other as adults _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ acts like parents and children

C. My Parents & Grandparents
tell each other important things _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _  keep many important secrets from each
                                                                                   other

listen to each other respectfully _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always butt in or ignore each other

get across well to each other _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ never seem to understand each other

work together when necessary _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ fight when cooperation is needed

try new ways to solve problems _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ do it the way it was always done

there for each other when really needed_  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ always in the way or never there
                                                                                               when needed                 
treat each other as adults _  _/_  _/_  /_  _/  _ acts like parents and children
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